Dear Eseoghene, Kill Your Darling — The Courage in Letting Go I recently broke up with my married boyfriend. Let's call him Mr. X. My relationship with Mr. X was the most meaningful and intellectually stimulating connection I have had with anyone I have dated. The relationship brought me to…

My Father! My Father! The Man Who Built My Mind — Today is my daddy’s 73rd birthday and as the years go by, I appreciate him even more not just as my father but as an overall great man. He served his Country in the Police Force and is now retired to a life of enjoyment. I believe my Father is…

Dear New Mummy (and Mummy to be), Can We Talk? A Backstory — From Girlhood to Motherhood As someone who didn’t have aspirations of motherhood, I went the mile when I found out I was going to have a baby in 2014. I was quite convinced I was going to be a terrible mother so my goal…

Yoga And Christianity – Debunking The ‘Yoga Is Demonic’ Myth — Is Yoga Demonic? Well, Yes. If you are not flexible enough yoga can feel pretty demonic. Haha. I thought that was funny when I heard the about quote so I popped it in there. Hopefully it read funny :) I have put off writing about this topic since 2019 when…

Memento Mori — “Remember That You Will Die.” ‘Ayuba was killed yesterday.’ I felt the pain hit me like a ton of bricks. My once-hungry tummy tied up in tight knots, squeezing even tighter with each breath I tried to take. I tried to stop crying, I was supposed to…

Empowering Single Mothers to Redefine Their Narratives — A few days ago, I attended a church service and the teaching that day was about marriage. As someone who left her marriage 2 years ago, the message triggered me that I created some ideas of my owwn. …

From Victim to Hero: Empower Yourself and Rewrite Your Narrative For almost 20 years (and especially in the last 10 years) I believed I was a victim of life and this mindset became my identity and coloured all my experiences. …

Transactional Relationships, Abortion Scams and the Commercialization of Love “Relationships are like a book; it takes a few chapters to decide if it’s worth the read, but once you’re hooked, you can’t put it down.” Unknown Transactional Relationships — Are All Relationships Transactional? In 2014, I attended a seminar called Landmark Forum and one of the things…

Calling all Parents, Teachers and Guardians — Let The Children Breeeeaaaaaath — Do you remember what it was like being a child? I remember wanting to grow up and become an adult. Only to grow up, become an adult and realize all that time spent trying to become an adult took away from being a child in my childhood. I hear my…